Ep 42: Stay Manly My Friends: Why You Need To Pick Up The Ring When It's Ready

While some may not immediately associate jewelry shopping with noble acts, we do. Think about it; you're trading your hard-earned dollars for something small and valuable, something you might not fully understand. And why? You're doing it all in the name of love and commitment.

Buying jewelry, especially engagement rings, is more than just a transaction; it's a meaningful gesture. As men, we take pride in providing for and cherishing our loved ones, particularly that one special person we want to commit to. Jewelry, whether it's an engagement ring or a beautiful necklace, symbolizes the partnership we're building to face life's challenges together.

Now, let's talk about the sacrifice involved in buying jewelry. It's not just about the money you spend; it's about the effort you put into earning that money. You could have chosen to spend it on something else – perhaps a new ATV, a fancy watch, or even expanding your collection of rare bourbons. But instead, you're investing in a small, valuable piece of jewelry to show your love and commitment. That's something truly noble.

Think about it – providing something that brings joy and happiness to your significant other is a tradition that's inherently masculine. Sure, it takes work and money, but it's a noble exchange. You're saying, "I'm here to make you feel special." And that, my friends, is pretty darn manly.

When you set out to buy an engagement ring or that special piece of jewelry she's always wanted, think of yourself as a knight or a king embarking on a quest.  You're the hero of your story, and when it comes to the world of jewelry, retail jewelers like us are your trusted guides. We'll point you in the right direction, but ultimately, you're the one who has to conquer the challenge.

Now, here's where some guys slip up. After securing that precious piece of jewelry, they let their significant other pick it up themselves. It might seem convenient – "Hey, your ring is ready; can you swing by and get it?" But here's the deal, gents: this isn't a jar of mayonnaise; it's one of the most significant symbols of your lifetime.

Let me make this crystal clear: your significant other should have no part in picking up their engagement ring or any other meaningful gift. Even if she knows it's coming, keep the exact timing a secret. Let her wonder, let her anticipate. The element of surprise adds to the excitement and makes for unforgettable memories.

Now, I know this might seem like common sense to most of you, but for those who haven't been through this experience, consider this your friendly reminder. Don't let your significant other pick up their engagement ring or any other special gift. You've conquered the challenge; it's your duty to present the treasure.

Remember, there's nobility in these small acts, and it's all part of the heroic journey. So go out there, be the hero, and make those moments count.

If you'd like help finding a jeweler closer to home, email me at andy@buylikeaguy.com and I'll do my best to put you in touch with some of the best jewelers on earth.

Music credits: Preacher Man by Miles Neilson and The Rusted Hearts, used with permission. A killer band with original songs that get stuck in your head. They're awesome.

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